Marriage is often very valued in the world we live in today. In the beginning, we have defined marriage as the traditional marriage between one man and one woman. However, throughout the years, the ‘traditional’ definition of marriage has branched/blurred out quite a bit. With more acceptance to situations other than heteronormativity, a marriage now also can include people who are agender, trans, and many other situations. However, unlike a “normal” marriage between a man and a woman, same-sex marriage gets a lot of backlash and there is a lot of controversy surrounding it. People still believe that marriage is only for people who can reproduce, and they do not believe that same-sex marriage is part of marriage. Same-sex marriage is as valid First of all, there is nothing wrong with same-sex marriage. Same-sex couples can get married, become a couple, be in love, and even have children, just like any other two people in the world. In the past, it wouldn’t have been possible to had have same-sex couple have children, but s to modern technology, that is all made possible today. In a study of gay men in a mixed-orientation marriage, 18 Jewish self-identified gay men were interviewed about their life as gays in an Orthodox community. They were mainly asked four things: “their reason for getting married, the role of the Orthodox community in sustaining the marriage, quality of marital relationship, and the impact of homosexuality had on the marital relationship” (Kissil & Itzhaky, 2015, p. 160). The main reason that the people in the experiment got married was because they thought they could “cure” their homosexuality with marriage, or that because marriage was expected, and if they didn’t, they would be found out as homosexual. Getting married was seen as a good deed because having a family and children was important. They believed that being married was a requirement if they were to live in their community. Most participants of the study stated that their marriage was